Psycho Husband Locks Bathroom At Night So Pregnant Wife Can't Pee And Unintentionally Wake Him Up

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Jul 8, 2022 2:30 PM EDT

Marriage is about communication and compromise. There's no way that a couple is always going to agree on something, but a good couple learns how to work out their issues through listening and truly hearing what the other person has to say. It may not be easy, but it must be done. Teamwork makes the dream work, especially when it comes to relationships. If one of the people involved in a relationship disregards what the other person says and goes ahead to do whatever they want, they probably shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place. In today's 'Am I the A$$hole?' post, OP is a pregnant woman who told us that her husband put a lock on the bathroom door so that she couldn't relieve herself at night. Um, come again?! His reasoning is that when she goes to the bathroom she wakes him up at night. Sir, everybody needs to pee and you cannot withhold that right from them. Scroll down for all the crazy details of this story. 

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    Rectangle - r/AmIthe Asshole . Posted by u/DoggoMagnus 14 hours ago 23 AITA for removing the lock on our bathroom door
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    Let's read on to figure out why there's a lock on the bathroom door in the first place. 

  • 02
    Plant - I (29f) am married to David (30m) and have been for 3 years, we have one beautiful daughter (2f) and have another one on the way.
    via u/DoggoMagnus

    Sounds like a cute little family…but wait, there's more! Read on. 

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    Font - The other week my husband approached me asking if I could not go to the toilet as much in the night as it was keeping him up and he had work early in the mornings. So that night I held it in so he could sleep, but one night I couldn't hold it in any longer so I got up and went. Next morning husband asked why I went to the toilet in the middle of the night and I blatantly told him that I couldn't hold it in, he dropped the subject and headed off to work.
    via u/DoggoMagnus
  • 04
    Font - Thinking I could now go to the toilet in the night again, i tiptoed out of are room went to the toilet and came back, husband seemed not to have woken so I went back to sleep. This all seemed to be fine for about a week
    via u/DoggoMagnus
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    Font - Then one day im out cause I have plans with friends that day and am out till quite late. When I arrive back home I crawl into bed and fall asleep, again I wake up and go to the bathroom but when I try to open it I find it's locked, and a new lock has been put on the outside with a key hole. I immediately confront husband asking why there is a lock on the bathroom, husband wakes up visibly angry saying "to stop you from using it in the night and waking me up" he continues to say how he has
    via u/DoggoMagnus
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    Font - I leave and go and sleep on the couch for the rest of the night. In the morning husband's gone and I find the bathroom is now open, with a newly written timetable on the Fridge titled "bathroom timetable" it then goes on to say "open between 7am and 10pm" "closed between 10pm and 7am" I was stunned that my husband would limit what time I could go to the bathroom.
    via u/DoggoMagnus
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    Font - I decided to call my brother and ask him to remove the lock he immediately came over and it was done and dusted within 20 min. When husband got home he was extremely angry saying how "I shouldn't of removed the lock" and how "you just made a big mistake" he then stormed out and I haven't seen him for 2 days Did I overstep by removing the lock AITA
    via u/DoggoMagnus
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    Font - Agitated_Cheek4890 . 9 hr. ago What tf did I just read?? I can understand asking not to flush the toilet if you're only doing a wee but to not go when you need to go? The man is cray cray. NTA
    via u/Agitated_Cheek4890
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    Rectangle - Mackymcmcmac 14 hr. ago 8 & 9 More Asshole Enthusiast [5] Assert your dominance, pee on him during the night. He'll remove the lock.
    via u/Mackymcmcmac
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    Font - CharacterSuccotash5 - 7 hr. ago Asshole Enthusiast [5] I am allIII for team "wet the bed" but this husband sounds like the kind of guy who would then stop her access to liquids after a certain time. "No liquids after midday to prevent toilet trips in the night".
    via u/CharacterSuccotash5
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    Human body - Medium-Marketing-493 13 hr. ago NTA in the slightest. Pregnant or not you go to the toilet when you need to go, end of. This is abuse
    via u/Medium-Marketing-493
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    Rectangle - pennywhistlesmoonpie. 14 hr. ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [44] What. WHAT??? NTA. But this is an enormous issue. Locking the bathroom is psychotic behavior. Your husband is unhinged. Please go stay with your brother.
    via u/pennywhistlesmoonpie

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